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NCMilGal's picture

We started out communication with BM regarding custody of SD15.

BM finally did something smart - she requested that it be email-only. This allows her to step away and not show her ass with the first thing out of her mouth, and to have it on record that she is "reasonable".

We laid out our VERY GENEROUS proposal (5 months temp tryout, her state keeps jurisdiction, we'd send SD15 to therapy and a religious private school and SHE KEEPS GETTING CS) and she said no with all sorts of bullshit reasons.

We responded with logic. So far (two days, and she was responding within 24 hrs) it's been radio silence. I told DH to prod her again - a simple one line: "In the interest of open communication as you requested, we're still waiting for a response from Monday's email"

He sent me this, to make me laugh:

Bobo,

Haven't heard from you and wanted to follow up and maintain the open lines of communication.

Since you have a tendency to be long winded and irrelevant in your replies I included the questionnaire below. Please reply with the choice that closely describes your thoughts on our last offer:

A. The offer is acceptable, let's iron out the details

B. Still praying on it, will follow up on Sunday

C. No

D. Hell no

E. HE said no

F. I'm drafting a counteroffer, will email when complete

G. I refuse to respond to this anymore

If no response is received we have to assume that you truly are batshit crazy and are only saying things for the sake of saying things while continuing to hide behind your Christian fanaticism.

DH

Note for the religious ladies - no offense is meant to you or to Christianity. See, BM is a hypocritical Christian. She gossips and lies and uses her faith to do nasty things to people. Not only that, she does crazy things because God tells her to. Last Sunday, God told her to invite a homeless man into her her house overnight. She then forbade SD15 from going to a friend's house because it was a school night.

I don't particularly care if BM and her DH are going to take risks like that, but for pity's sake, get the kids out of the house when you do it! Don't put them at risk too!

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NCMilGal's picture

Oooooh yes. Began asking a full year ago, so it's not a "I'm mad at Mom!" tantrum.

See, we don't hit her, or call her names using obscenities, (although I cuss like a sailor - but it's not aimed at anybody) or blame her for how sucky our lives are - all of which BM does.

Sadly, unless we can prove physical abuse, our chances are significantly less than 50/50, despite having an extremely articulate teenager willing to testify to her preferences in open court.

crazymom214's picture

I can't believe that a 15 year old young lady can't decide where she wants to live. That's terrible.