I get SO ANNOYED when she tries to control us
So SS15 wanted to do marching band this fall. DH and HCBM agreed and signed him up (they have joint legal and physical custody) Then SS decides he wants to do baseball on top of it. DH said no because he would miss almost every single game because of marching band competitions (except for two all season) and DH said that's shitty to do to the team if he can't commit to making the games. HCBM said SS gets to do whatever he wants and signs him up anyway. (Contempt number 25/26)
So she messages DH today and says "will you take SS to his game next weekend? He really wants to go and marching band will be over so he has a free weekend. I can take him if you won't"
First, WHAT DOES SHE MEAN HE HAS A FREE WEEKEND!!??? Who does she think she is to dictate if he is free on our weekend with them??? As a matter of fact he is NOT free! We already bought tickets to a festival they said they want to go to. And second, DH never agreed to him doing baseball!!!
I have been able past a lot of things but this whole wanting to control our weekends and if we don't abide by her every demand she tells the kids that dad doesn't support them has been very difficult for me to get past. I can.not stand when she tries to control MY HOME!!!