Well this weekend went great until sd's b-day party on Sunday at MIL's. My ss was there, for those of you who don't know he does not come to our home because bm says I am mean and has accused me of abuse on him. I feel very uncomfortable around him and he is very self centered and a total brat. He hardly sees dh, every Wednesday for 1 hour and EOW on Sundays for 2 hours, he makes it very clear that he wants to be with bm, no rules and he doesn't have to do anything. SS basically ignores dh and this is the 2nd time I have been around him since Aug 08.