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Sunday Funday

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im currently in our room with the door shut to get some peace while SD10 has been on a group call with 2 of her friends on speaker phone playing some game. Going on 2 hours now and nothing but yelling and screaming. DH is in living room with her watching football. 

Addicted to cell phone

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i believe my SD10 is truly addicted to her phone. Her mom got her one when she was 4 and it’s all been downhill from there. I told DH back then this was a bad idea as obviously a 4 year old doesn’t need a cell phone. Now here we are and SD has a phone just as good as mine! 

SD does NOTHING but stare at the phone all day. We could be walking around stores and she’s staring down at it. Of course running into people and things while playing Games, YouTube, etc. Maybe a friend will call but that is rare.

Who is in charge?

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We just had a hurricane here in Florida... I ended up being out of work for 5 days. BM refused to leave her beachside home and asked DH to take SD so she wasn’t in harms way. DH said absolutely so we kept her for 5 days, this is after already having her 3 weekends back to back, when it’s supposed to be every other.

I was given no choice or say in this of course! Flash forward, DH gets called into work 3 out of the 5 days and leaves her here with me!!! I was livid! Just because her “mom” doesn’t want to leave her unsafe house I have to watch her now?!

Is this really my life?

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Time to vent.... Been with DH for 7 almost 8 years. SD10. I never in a million years thought I would marry someone who already had a child. But DH is my best friend. He gets me and always has. My family loves him. He does the small things that show me he cares but then we have SD. 

I didn’t come around much in the beginning, mainly Bc she was 2 and screamed all the time. I was in college and didn’t think this was going to last anyways so I would always be “busy” when he got her. Fast forward, we’re married for 4 years and I’m becoming resentful.