I am writing because I feel horrible about how I am feeling towards my s/d. First of all we have not seen her in three years because her mom would get angry with her and her dad everytime she would visit us on weekends. So she chose to stop visiting and strangely enough we had to except it for her sake. Well her mom was unexpectedly killed in a motorcycle accident. Now s/d lives with us and is going to a new school. All of this is hard for her and she has been amazingly strong through this.