This happened over a month ago but I am still SO ANGRY about it. My SO BD12 stold something from me while at his house. It is very obvious that she took it, yet he does not want to punish her. They do not have a good relationship bc of things done by the BM, and he does not want to push her away even more by punishing her. I want him to have a good relationship with his kids, but this is not a good relationship! If one of his kids does something wrong, he should be able to punish them without fear of them deciding they do not want to be at his house anymore!