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Lazy and entitled BM

Ursula's picture

SD goes back to BMs today.  BM was going to pick her up after school.  The laptop SD is using at our house for virtual learning decided to take a crap this morning so SD couldn't log in.  Husband messaged BM asking if she can pick up SD now so she won't miss too much school.  BM seriously responded asking if I could drop SD off to her? Uh no...I cannot.  Get off your lazy ass and pick up your own kid.  I am working from home, BM knows I work.  She is off work today so doesn't make much sense that I would drop her kid off to her just so she doesn't have to inconvenience herself. WTF.  Maybe I would consider doing that if she was a nice person, but she isn't so nope.

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JRI's picture

You'd think she would want to keep SD from missing school.  Well, look on the bright side, at least she works, our BM didnt.

Ursula's picture

True! I was sure she would quit working when she had her most recent kid but I don't think she wants to lose all the tax money she gets every year lol.  She did end up coming to get her but she wasn't too happy.

JRI's picture

I know you were really sad for her, lol.

Harry's picture

It's her kid.  She is the mother. 

Ursula's picture

Exactly! Why should I do more for her kid than she is willing to do?  She's always trying to find a way to get out of transporting SD. 

shamds's picture

"Let me check ursula's chauffer and taxi service availability.... oh its fully booked forever because she has a job and is working and this isn't her responsibility or job as its not her kid!!"

we all know the shitstorm from bio mum if hubby said that

Ursula's picture

Lol, right! BM has always made a point about how I'm not SDs mom and never would be (thank the lord bc I would NEVER want to be!) yet she wants me to take on the responsibility of transporting her because BM is too lazy to do it.  No thank you!

JRI's picture

I cant remember all the details about the movie Stepmom which was unrealistic in some ways.  But I do remember that Julia Roberts was immediately roped into driving the SKs around.  Lol.