Tigerlily7's Blog
Lice, filth... mental breakdown, I'm lost.
Its been a while since I've visited here, I have went back and forth last couple of weeks about reaching out, ranting etc.
I sat up with my SD's 10 and 8, my back and feet aching from spending the last 6 hours standing up and arching down to pick thorugh their hair.
DH has primary residential.. BM gets the kids EOWE from friday to Sunday.
It has been that way for the last 4 years.
DH has tried to amend the custody order and get supervised visits but the judge said that Lice and BM's lack of support and communication is not enough to suspend her visits.
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Am I the only one or?
Is there anyone else who just stays for the kids? *bad*
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Sex talks, Corporal Punishment, Ready to run away.
BM still does EOWE with my 2 SD's. She does not ask for extra time and does not make an effort for extra time... no communication, no phone calls not even does she financially support them..
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YOU NEED TO STEP UP AND BE A STEP PARENT
.... I've cried all afternoon, coming here to the blog in hopes you all can help steer me/relate or lift me up.
This is BM's weekend, our town is doing fireworks today because we got rained out twice. The SK's wanted to see fireworks, BM is supposed to pick them up at 6pm. She called DH to see if I wanted to meet her in town tonight, said that her ride to get the kids does not want to go to town twice as they cannot afford the gas.
My husband works so he wont be at the event.
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What is the point?
in these visitations with a crappy BM when she does not even spend the time she was granted with her children!?
SD calls me today and asks me can she bring home a hamster. I was stressing to her how that would be a big expense and care that I know she would not give to the thing after she "brought it home for me to take care of" along with the rabbit, 2 dogs and cat she cried for/demanded all here.. all that i am caring for.
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"Are you letting me get the kids this weekend?" - HOW DO I RESPOND TO THIS?
I am still standing here staring at the text… literally going back and forth between managing the home and my daily struggles but no form of words in response to something that needs a response.