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Totally OT but I need to bitch.

I am moving Friday. I got most the crap in the divorce since I got stuck with our expensive rental house. Crazy bastard got everything he asked for and then I alsoi just gave him BS bedroom set as I bought him a new bed for the move.

It was a ton of stuff to go through, clean, pack ect... I am moving from 1600SF to 1212 and a 1 car garage.I have worked my ass off, I am a single mom, work 43hrs a week, have MS and a bad back. My parents came down 1 night/day and helped go through the shed and pack BS's room otherwise I have done it. I hired movers ( don't know if amypne remembers my blog about my rich sister bitching at me to do that and not expect help after our parents came and helped her move 2 years ago ).

I asked my mom who is retired to come down last week, go to BS's program with me because it was the first function I had to go to and deal with ex H and to help me pack on Friday. She said no she had plans, but she could come down this Thursday the day before the move. I said no, what I needed help with would be done and for them to just come Friday. They will help out with BS and will be leaving with my 1200.00 washer and dryer set and a few other items for their troubles.

I just spoke with my rich sister who told me they were coming this Thursday am and tried to convince me that I had told them to.She got her info from dad who got it from mom. I cut her off as I was walking into work and was not going to argue...she got pissy. I sent a text apologizing but stated that I KNOW what I told mom and she just does whatever she wants.

I swear my mom is doing this because she knows my BF is going to be home that day after being gone 3 1/2 weeks and I carved out some alone time while BS is at school. Also we are taking a couple of my items to his place that he is storing for me.

They are going to meet him for the first time and I am stressed over that too in addition to moving and crazy ex drama. My mom even tried to tell me he looks like crazy ex ( which he doesn't WTF!!!) . I love my mom but she drives me nuts. She also keeps making comments about me having sex with him. I am 46 so who cares.

Argh!!! Thanks for listening.

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OMG and when I called my mom she tried to tell me that I change the plan all the time. I have NEVER changed it. Now momis acting all pissy because i said Friday am period.

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They are drama filled. When they were here a few weeks ago my mom says to me I look like I gained weight. I said no I weigh the same. Then she tells me I should loose another 50lbs ( I lost 50lbs this year) So I can look like I did when I was 30. I am 46 almost 47 and look betterthan she ever has oh and BTW she had gastric bypass surgery. No wonder I have body image issues WTF. BF says tell her that he can't keep his hand off me and I make his d$ck hard when he sees me.....gonna pass on that.

Sweet T's picture

They are drama filled. When they were here a few weeks ago my mom says to me I look like I gained weight. I said no I weigh the same. Then she tells me I should loose another 50lbs ( I lost 50lbs this year) So I can look like I did when I was 30. I am 46 almost 47 and look betterthan she ever has oh and BTW she had gastric bypass surgery. No wonder I have body image issues WTF. BF says tell her that he can't keep his hand off me and I make his d$ck hard when he sees me.....gonna pass on that.