CS agency frustration
So I am the BM in this circumstance( former step mom for newcomers). When we initially divorced I let my ex convince me to not go through the state for cs management but pay directly like he did weith bm1. He is high conflict and a couple years in after I had pointed out to him that my costs to insure bs went from 25.00 A month to 300.00 that we needed to review. He refused so I went through the state...I had covered the costs for 2 years before requesting a review.
So this summer I contacted them to let them know that we needed to restate daycare for the summer...He pays 115.00 A month when there is daycare. It costs me close to 500.00 A month...so he gets off easy.
I realized last week that they were still icluding it and contacted them via email. We have a new case worker and she was well it is your responsibility to tell us to stop...I am sorry but I was not told that and figured my original message asking it to be reinstated June to August should have covered it.
Has anyone else had this experience ...my ex is going to be pissed . He owes mne more than that in med expenses...but I need to get those in to the state as well.
I asked how they will refund him as I don't think he real7zed it...but when he does I am sure he will think I was cheati g him....argh!!!!!