******i need to clarify the comments we made. It was stuff like after they were outside that they stunk and we need to febreeze the house. It was said with humor and not to be mean. We were going on an adults only vacation and we had to wait for the stepkids to go home so we were doing a count down clock to when we could leave and ds told them we count down the minutes till they leave and that we have to febreeze the house after they leave because they stink. If I was ever cruel or mean about my stepkids I doubt dh would tolerate that.********