I have been a sm for 2 1/2 yrs, and it has been nothing but a challenge, with just a few rewards. One of the many challenges is my dh's family. They decided not long after we got married that they did not like me. I'm not sure if it is because they seem to be good friends bm or not. We have fought many times for custody of the kids, as of right now we have skids every other weekend. The BM and live in boyfriend have both gotten dui's and didnt have license at same time. The BM had the kids on the weekend she got her dui and sd10 had a friend sleeping over that night.