- When DH tells SS13 he can watch TV and/or sleep in the very small Living Room / TV area outside of our bedroom. The kids have the entire second floor complete with cable tv in the upstairs living room, video game systems and SS13 has a flat screen in his room connected to his Xbox. We have a small portion of the house and I don't like kids hanging out in it - especially at night. I want to be able to walk to the bathroom or get up with the baby without having to worry about covering up my bits.

- MY DH is driving me crazy with his horniness. Our baby is 4 weeks old now and he hasn't gotten much lovin' from me in these 4 weeks. But god it drives me crazy when I'm trying to nurse the baby and he wants to fondle my other boob or if I'm laying in bed with the baby, trying to get her to sleep and he crams his boner up against me and tells me how much he misses me. (Dont get me wrong, I love that he loves and wants me, but damn! back off when I'm with the baby).

- DH seems to be pushing the relationship with the baby and SS. I'm not sure why it bugs me, but it does. It seems so forced and I don't like the thought of DH using my child as some sort of pawn.

- My exH / BD to my kids. He drives me nuts because he can't keep anything straight. Our three kids have been home with me Mon - Fri. He'll pick them up for his night(s) around 5 and bring them back in the morning. I've been planning their activities, playdates, etc and asked him to let me know in advance if he needs to change the pick up time, etc. Wed HE texts and asks if we have plans on Thursday as he wants to get the kids at 3. I say "no problem" and just plan the day around that. At 1 I text to make sure that's still the plan. He doesnt' get back to me. By 3, I've texted him two more times but no response. Then finally he tells me, he doesn't know what's going on as he's checking with his wife since she was going to pick the kids up. Then at about 3:30 he lets me know that she'll be there by 4 and that he's sorry, he made a mistake, blah, blah, blah. He drives me crazy with his last minute changes and his lack of being organized.

That is all.