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this trainwreck doesn't need a baby

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Have you ever come to a realization that just hits you like a train? That was me today. I am so not having a good week so far and I look like a train wreck. I fell down some icey steps and got all banged up and then this AM got the bright idea to give my cat a bath (i do about once a year). And of course we have the sKids this week.

o/t Some times I feel like I am talking to myself

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At least then I would have an intelligent conversation for once Smile So this weekend was interesting... I went away for a long weekend to do something with my mother (and BF's mom) and BF joined us on Friday. You would have thought that I had left him for a month! And I asked him to take care of my two cats and you would have thought I wanted blood or something from him - but I can take are of his kids on a daily basis and that is OK. grrrr

O/T rules of engagment - the act of getting engaged.

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recently I posted about the 'boy who cried wolf' so what about the man that pretended to pop the question? If no one has written that book, please let me be the first. Smile

Let me start off by saying that my BF is a total smart ass and I can usually hold my own with him. Most of the time it's funny. This however has gone on long enough that it's not so funny any more and it's not just me that he is playing with.

the story of the boy who cried wolf

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I feel bad but has any one else had this issue. SS4 cries and throws fits about every little thing. So by the time he gets to something that he really should cry about, I am so sick of hearing it. I just want to snap at him.

Well last night he threw up and then screamed bloody murder, like a baby. It was so annoying. I get that he is sick but to me crying about it seems counter productive (makes him feel worse). But he is 4.5 years old and still can't tell us why he is crying. Had we not seen the 'puke' we would have been guessing as to what was bothering him.

'step' parenting advice - SS4 not self motivated

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BM does EVERYTHING for ss4 (still) and I can't / don't want to. He is 4.5 years old I think its about time for him to do things on his own. Though he is getting better at the potty, he won't go unless you tell him to, then he won't get off the potty unless you tell him too. He stands there and waits for some one to dress him, which he can dress himself but you have to tell him to.

Suggestions from yesterday

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Yesterday on my post some people suggested forgetting about BM, and i want to do that. I get that I can't fix her (or her kids) but forgetting it hard when my SO keeps dragging me back in. He tells me thing that suck me back into the soap opera that is BM's life. What should I do about that? Him and I are long over do for a heart to heart so do I toss that in with it?

The example this week is...

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