Do many of you go thru guilty parenting (on the other side). I never have done that in past relationships with my kids. But my husband I think is afraid of his ex and does not want to say or do anything for fear or what his daughter will tell her BM. BM is a chronic police caller even if I am 10 minutes late. or if she gets scratched at the park or whatever.....

how do you tell your significant other that this behavious is not only hurting the SD but also the other kids in the family and esp your relationship?