Here we go again
I knew my SO putting his foot down to SS was too good to be true....he let him get away with everything once again.
We were at our friends home (they have a 2 year old...we'll call him FC). While SO was outside with the guys grilling, I was inside with the kids and the girls cooking. Their kitchen is small, and the fridge is right next to the walkway (just to give you a visual). SS was leaning against the fridge, and FC was riding his play train into the kitchen when he got stuck. I looked over at the right moment and saw SS "fake" spit on FC...and then look up at me with that annoying "I did something bad and you can't do anything about it" smile....that smile seriously makes me so angry!!
I wasn't having it. I told him to "do not do that again". Then he starts playing dumb and saying, "what?...do what?". And I said, "what I just saw you do...spitting on FC!". Then he goes into denial, "I didn't spit on him...I had something on my tongue and did this.." (he re-enacted it, but instead of putting his face down, towards FC, he aimed up to the ceiling.
I walked outside and told SO that I couldn't believe what just happened, and I continued to tell him the details. Halfway in between he said, "Oh, that's where you f****d up...you should've just came out and told right away because now it's too late, I can't say anything". OH, I CALL B.S. It happened less than 2 minutes ago, and he was still in the kitchen.
About 5 minutes later, SS walks out of the house and SO tells him to go back inside. I immediately felt somewhat relieved because I THOUGHT he was going to make it clear to SS that what he did was wrong. Two minutes after, one of our friends came out of their house and told me I should check on SO because he was laying on the couch with his son, and apparently looked like he was about to fall asleep. I go inside, and sure enough he is laying there with SS watching a movie. I could already tell he didn't make anything clear. When he joined us outside, he confirmed what I already knew. He said he briefly told his son that he shouldn't do that again...and that was it. That was all that was said. I was left feeling like the bad guy...and I can only imagine what SS told his mother when he went home. Greaaaaat.