I have been dealing with a vendictive ex-wife for many years now. My DH and I will be going to court AGAIN in the next few weeks!! The BM is suing us for contempt of court stating that I, the SM have provided a non-conducive living environment and that I am out partying and saying foul words!! Everything that she has written is untrue as I am a full time student at the local University as well as a BM to two young children. My DH and I provide a very loving and stable home and do not allow foul language, as our 2 children are VERY impressionable.