I have been a member for a while and mostly read.. strange how almost everything I read is so much like my SD and SS .
This may be more of a vent but i am open to any comments .

I guess i need to start back a month or so before i get into my vent.. We have an in ground pool. and SD of course wants to come swim, which i don't have any problem with,
but she never calls or lets us know when she is coming. Again, shes family so i am deal with it.. What i am NOT ok with is her bring people with her when we are not there.