treat all ur kids equal!!
I am ok with SD13 coming over..when I am not ok is when she trys to boss my kids around n even kicks them out of their rm!! She is very over protective with her stuff n yet if she wants to see something that belongs to My kids she will snatch it from them n yell "let me see it!" .. she is a VERY quiet girl (u know what they say about the shy n quiet ones) so to my DH she is an angel when really she isn't, this girl lies left n right n like I've said before she is ALL about material stuff I mean she is only 13 n has 3 DSi's, digital camera, lap top, ipad, iphone n still wants more!! Damn we don't even have that (how can we afford it we practically pay her moms mortgage.. ok atleast half) .. I don't want to dislike her but obviously its going to bother me if she is being rude n show off to my kids n DH sees nothing wrong with that.. I have told her over n over again to please cherish the time with her siblings, my kids LOVE her n when she comes over they are like her shadow n she doesn't give them the time of day.. I have told my hubby to speak to her n let her know she is not allowed to hit, yell or boss her brothers but either he did n wasn't serious enough or she just does not care.. it's getting to the point were it really bothers me..its like I've said before, she gets special treatment n she knows it n takes advantage if it..I feel like telling my husband that he better do something about it or I don't want her to come anymore he could just do his own thing with her..ugh!! What to do n how without getting into an argument with my hubby..I just want gim to b fair..