Are you living in the house that your hubby and his ex lived in ???
So, if you look at my history you'll see that I have always been a single mom of 1..who married and moved into the country with dad of 4 kids and overbearing exwife.
After only 1 yr of marriage, i ran..and am now staying at a friends (been here a month and half)....well we went to a few counseling meetings...and started to make progresss
He when he invites me to go back to the house (His house) not ours, because i hate the damn place..its out in the country around all of his family and i am like a fish out of water there.......on top of the fact that this house is where he and his ex lived all of their married lives and becuz settlement is not done..her name is STILL on it!!!!!
Problem is, now that i've moved out and in with a girlfriend in my home town...i really dont want to move back in with hubby.......I've asked him to sell the home so we can start over, and get OUR own place; but he refuses, he loves it there...
I dont find this is fair, am I wrong? Why should I have to live where I dont want to live, in a house that reaks nothing but the ex?