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I think I should become a career bm with al the money she makes

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Submitted by PinkShorts on Wed, 09/19/2018 - 8:53pm

Bm and dh divorced in 2010. Since then dh has paid 1,000 a month for child support. We provide medical, dental and life insurane. We also split any extra school, sports everything fees. We also provide all shoes and buy majority of clothing. When the divorce was finalized there was 3 children, one has since been aged out. 

Bless your heart BM, this sure has backfired

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Submitted by PinkShorts on Wed, 09/12/2018 - 10:06pm

I think BM's manipulation, poison attitude and high conflict ways may have backfired. I think she believed the more she manipulated the kids, the more she created drama and acted like a saint, and the more she called him a horrible father and brought up  how "he used to be" she could control everything. I think her BS has finally taking a toll. DH does not care. He does not care if they are here. If they are there.  He keeps saying he just wants to be happy, and me and dd4 are what make him happy.

Glad I thought ahead and saved my own sanity..

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Submitted by PinkShorts on Mon, 09/10/2018 - 9:12pm

I am writing this on my phone so I apologize beforehand for any errors. A little bit of a backstory: for several years. (Probably about 3) I took skids to the majority of appointments. Husband was active militairy and deployed consistently. BM is useless unless it comes to creating drama. Anyway every year for several years it was completely horrifically embarrassing at the dentist. Kids dont brush floss etc. Etc. 

I dont want them back here ever!

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Submitted by PinkShorts on Sun, 08/05/2018 - 4:11pm

About 3 weeks ago my and DH discovered a speaker was missing from our house. Things disappearing from this house happens quite frequently and is infuriating. So we have repeatedly asked the kids if they know where the speaker is. Finally, SS16 must have either felt guilty (unlikely) or was pissed at SS13 enough to tell us the truth. SS13 took our speaker to BM's, broke it and they smuggled it back in a duffel bag. Apparently, SS13 has also been smuggling out our PS4 (We allow him to keep it in his room). That everyone in this household and BM"S house are aware he is not allowed to do.

You are TRASH...

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Submitted by PinkShorts on Thu, 07/12/2018 - 10:52pm

This will be a full ranting blog. I am pissed, at my wits end and tired of everything that has to do with these people. I understand I will get backlash from this blog but I do not care. I am tired of this BS. And since I cannot say these things aloud....i will say it online.