If disengaging is going into our bedroom, closing the door and watching tv in bed by myself for most of the night then I disengaged from my SO and his daughter last night. And you know? It sucked! I felt like a prisoner in my own home. I was resentful that my SO didn't seem to care that I went in there at 9 instead of staying up with him (although he did come in twice. I don't know if it was to see what I was doing or to see the dog. Probably the dog). I hated that she was up till almost 11 because yet again they cancled school for today becuase OMG it might rain this afternoon. (The south is serioulsy a joke about closing schools down for just normal weather) This meant my SO and I didnt get a chance to be alone before I had to fall asleep.
Anyways he finally came in around midnight and didnt give me a kiss goodnight. His excuse if I had said anything would have been that I was sleeping and he didnt want to wake me up. Yeah right! I am sure he is pissed at my coldness and indifference. But what was my other choice? Sit inthe family room with them watching HGTV instead of shows I like and beign ignored since my SO was in one of his cold moods?