I have recently found out that our 17 year old has been smoking pot, that is hard enough to deal with the trust is gone and everything, today however I have found out that his older brother (13 years older then him) my oldest step son is the one that got him high for the first time.... I am livid. I can't believe their father is so calm, how dare this adult child turn our younger children onto drugs.... I am anger behind belief.... I want to ring this mans neck.....