Would you or wouldn't you?
We video chatted with SD on Saturday morning, about 45 minutes after the scheduled time BM once again agreed to beforehand. Supposedly, BM set an alarm for a 4 hour time difference instead of a 3 hour time difference. BM knows the time difference since when she offers times to call, etc. she gives it half the time in our time zone and the other half in her time zone. Whatever, we literally said no words to BM, just had attempted to call SD twice and when there was no answer, said we would either reschedule or take the call when she finally calls back.
During this phone call SD said she got a new phone, this is either the 3 or 4th in less than two years. I am pretty sure it is the 4th phone. The first one was wifi only with a crack in it, the second one was the one with the incriminating messages and photos on, the third one was a totally different phone this summer that kept getting messages about a balance being due to reconnect the line, and now this one. Just not sure if the first and second one were the same or not. All these phones only worked on wifi and BM has made tons of comments that make us believe all of the phones in their household only work on wifi, probably because they don't pay their bills on time.
Anyway, out of the 2 or 3 phones we have seen, DH's contact was only on the phone this past summer, but not on the ones before. DH and I are torn about mentioning to BM that SD told us she got a new phone, can you send us her number and add us to her phone? The reason we are torn about this is because is BM going to then try to demand how and when SD uses the phone she sends here since we are requesting DH at least be added and we have the phone number? BM ALREADY tries before each trip to try and tell us how the phone will or should be used on our time and each time DH tells her that it is up to him on his visitation as it is on hers.