So you know how BM has been saying that DH is stopping SD from having a better quality of life by not automatically just agreeing for SD to get her tonsils removed? It has been 2 weeks since SD's latest appointment and BM has not:
1. Uploaded the paperwork still from 9/13/21 appointment
2. Uploaded or messaged about the results of the environmental allergy tests
3. Sent any other messages with photos or anything on SD's tonsils
4. Sent information on SD's October appointment, just mentioned 2 weeks ago that SD has one
So today DH messaged BM asking for the paperwork to be uploaded, asked if the environmental allergy results are in and if so to upload the results, and asked about the information on the date, time, and doctor for SD's October Appointment. BM messages back just that she was going to follow up to see if the results for the allergy test are in yet. So either BM is lying and doesn't have the information or she is not following up on this life threatening condition BM is saying SD is suffering from.
OH and DH re-asked BM if she said SD has missed 2 days of school due to her tonsils and are waiting for her response. DH called the school and verified other than missing school for the 9/13/21 appointment, SD has NOT been absent at all from school. DH re-asked because BM is not the most intelligent and the way she worded the message she was either saying SD has missed school or will miss 2 days of school if DH does not agree to the surgery.
DH is planning on contacting the doctor tomorrow from the last appointment if by end of today BM has not uploaded the documents. So nothing more than more frustration to repeat. DH backed off for 2 weeks on the subject giving BM an opportunity to share the information she is supposed to and surprise, surprise, she did none of it.
**EDIT: BM is claiming SD missed 4 days of school, but according to her teacher on 9/14/21, SD has only missed 9/13/21. Guess DH is going to have to call the school again.