Me and DH have a great marriage though we have so many years in between us. When we first started dating I was nervous because he had a 9 year old daughter as feisty as I am and a 11 year old son. I was nervous because I didn't know if they would give me problems because I was 21 years younger than him but we get along great. But for SS, maybe he got too comfortable. When we first got together we had a studio apartment and when the kids would come over we would share the bed (so glad we're doing better). We made it work but I started to wake up in the middle of the night from touching.