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BM comin into my home !

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Submitted by newmom01 on Thu, 09/15/2011 - 11:33am

I just read another person story on here about BM coming into her house and standing next to her bed while she was sleeping.

But I have allowed BM to come to my home a total of 3 times only!

The first one was to ALLOW her to drop of ss's at my beautifully manicured yard, evenly cut green grass, beautiful palm trees swaying in the wind, the shadow of my two story home covering her dusty car.

Should I enjoy or Question....

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Submitted by newmom01 on Mon, 09/12/2011 - 12:01pm

Everything has been great for a while now, SK's are being respectful, and have even started kissing me???? When both boys come in they say hello and lay one on the cheek ...same as when they are leaving,

DH has not been doing all the "extra errand running" that he use to do for BM that caused so much trouble in our marraige. Neither has he been keeping the kids over extra.

So should I just count my blessings and chill out, our wait for the storm? No stupid/inapropriate text messages either! or late night phone calls from BM asking Dh dumb questions.

Have you ever paid attention to the "Who's Online" numbers?

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Submitted by newmom01 on Fri, 08/19/2011 - 9:52am

To the right of your screen it has a who's online area, currently it says 52 users and 116 guest. So who are these guests? Has anybody ever gotten into any trouble because a bm, DH, or Sk found out what you were saying online?

Why are these people not signed in? DO they find our troubles funny, or intresting? Just wondering....... :?

Great Life Now!

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 08/02/2011 - 8:24am

I haven't been on here in a while, but something fell on DH's head and he has been normal and SUPER loving for months! He always is sweet, but we never had any problems,(besides that parent trying to move in crap) the only ones we had were related to both ss's but that has smoothed over greatly!! Not thier behavior to say, but issues with thier mom.....he has even told his mom (MIL) to stop bugging/depending on him for everything!

Am I over thinkin things (what do you think)

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 07/05/2011 - 5:04pm

First of all things have been great for months !!!!! Still is great I just want your opinion on my feelings (I have NOT said anything to DH about this)

Ok so DH pays cs....Im not jealous, but the sk's are really spoiled now 9 and 8..they dont live with us the visit EOW....BM buys them all the latest game systems, games, clothes & shoes, toys and takes them on tons of trips..Disney World, Seaworld, Moody Gardens,Chucky Cheese, ..and etc

Spoiled kids..I just dont agree step kids or not!

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Submitted by newmom01 on Mon, 06/27/2011 - 1:57pm

I know that we are living in a diffrent time now, but I too think that kids of a certain age should not have all of these high tech things! My ss 8 just got a new smart phone from BM of course! Because I would never allow DH to buy him one. BM tells DH its because he gets good grades!!!What a joke at that age that is what HE IS SUPPOSE TO DO!

BM just got 8yo ss $150 cell phone for b-day!!!

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Submitted by newmom01 on Sat, 06/25/2011 - 9:58pm

I had been reading about this for about a month on here and i be damned it happened to me! First of all I have a cheap ass cricket phone, but Im not mad about that....because all I need it for is to text in emergency or just make a phone call ...I really am not into all that high tech stuff, BUT also our finances would not really allow me to get such a phone if I wanted it right now. Then BM had the nerve to as DH to pay for half the phone! I told him hell no!

Is it us or them

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 06/14/2011 - 9:39am

Man....I have been reading these long vents on here this morning/last couple of weeks and I just cant believe it......I have been a member on here for a while now and everbody ...when I say everybody...I mean everbody's DH have used the same terms/phrases in heated arguments including mine! I know that when people go through things they feel like they are the only ones going through it, but its freaking unreal the stuff us SM/2nd wives have to deal with marrying a man with children. And they all do the same stuff...

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