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Tomorrow. GU & new skids

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 10/21/2011 - 9:10am

I'm scared sh*tless. SOs first face to face with GU that will take place ALONE. EKK! As of now the plan is that I will not be meeting her this weekend. Then our first weekend visit with SS4 and SD2. Add in that I have a 5 month old and resident SD10 who is a nightmare.

DHs alone time w/ the golden uterus...

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Wed, 10/19/2011 - 2:21pm

Ok. So DHs ex a.k.a. The golden uterus, took his kids and left him high and dry no word besides being hit up with child support for almost 2 years. She recently has started talking to him (like 4 months ago). So we are having our first weekend visit with SS4 and SD2. Well, GU and kids know nothing about me or our baby girl. I've been keeping the peace and not saying anything. He had always talked to her when hes out. He claims its because they always call when he happens to not be home.

The golden uterus strikes again!

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Tue, 10/04/2011 - 11:46pm

She called again just to talk and tell cutesie stories about her kids. Of course SO drops everything to go have a private conversation with her. :sick: Lets not think of the fact that of had been home all night with his brat and he let my dinner get stone cold. Little does he know that I an already making arrangements for my daughter and I starting the first of next year. Just in case... Ugh. I hate this. There has been HUGE improvements lately. But I just am not going to stick around if he wants to continue this little love affair with the golden uterus/wifey.

DH forgot SD10.

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 3:32pm

}:) Ok so I'm enjoying this a little too much. DH was having such a fun relaxing morning. We shopped, cooked together, he cleaned, we watched a movie, and played with the baby. 10 minutes after he was supposed to leave to get her I happened to look at my phone. I said, "DH its 0:00!!!"

I can't stand this kid... And I'm not the only one!

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Mon, 10/03/2011 - 9:06am

My SD10 is one of the worst kids I've ever met. When I met SO I felt like he just excused, excused, excused EVERYTHING. Well, last month I had enough. Enough of her bad attitude and behavior. Enough of my SO being a class-a jerk. Enough of everything. So I said to myself I will give it a month. The change in my SO has been crazy! He must have been able to sense just how close to the edge I was.

New skids, old skid, the favorite, the golden uterus, where does that leave ME??

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Thu, 09/29/2011 - 9:28am

This is a long story.
So I have SD10 living full time with my SO and my 4 month old. She is her BM in a smaller body. Pure, trashy, evil... That's not really what this post is about though, just saying what I already have FULL TIME. Thankfully BM1 does not run our life, SO hates her so we both laugh at her attempt to cause drama. We have full legal, custodial rights so she can't really do anything to us.

Ex step??

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Sat, 09/24/2011 - 4:49pm

This might be it. A year and a half and I'm not sure there's anything left. We got in this HUGE fight over NOTHING. Literally, absolutely nothing besides him waking up in a pissy mood. Well, its been almost a full day of "f yous" and "this is bs" and "you're such a f'n child" and many other insults which resulted in me balling my eyes out which only pissess him off more... So he leaves in MY car leaving me crying uncontrollably. And out of all this he somehow wants ME to be in the wrong because I wasnt "responding to him" when he woke up pissed. :?

The "perfect" parent

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Submitted by newbiemommy on Tue, 09/20/2011 - 1:01pm

Does anyone else notice that when it comes to skids the world demands perfection. If its our own its assumed that we will make mistakes but with skids we are supposed to by osmosis be these perfect parent figures. How dare we get annoyed, we must never lose our temper, we must put up with any bad behavior they may throw our way, we must never need a break, our patience will be limitless, we can never disciple, we must never point out bad behavior, we must have unconditional love for them even if we will never get it back.

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