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So the new summer schedule is EOW. I am not thrilled by this one bit ever since Dh took A55 face to court kids where brain washed and now they hate coming here and make things miserable. They are made to believe that they shouldn't have to follow our house rules and that they should get what they want when they want because they are kids.

Just our Luck :(

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So Bm and her lawyer asked for Attorney fees and cost to be paid by my DH at our Final hearing months ago Dh told judge he did not agree his reasons and then Judge stated Bm's lawyer is to submit a list of his fees and then Judge told DH that he did not need to respond to lawyers submission and that for the record he was made to repeat his position. Fast forward a few months Dh gets an order stating he is to pay 60% of BM's fees because he did not respond.

Excuse me Child investigator but ...

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So Bm's lawyer just sent investigator pretty much saying thank you for your opinion but im going to ask that DH has way less time than he already has and go against your suggestions. So she has realized her child support wouldn't increase as dramatically as she thought and the only was for it to happen is to take days away from Dh and make sure its well under 92 days in the yr. I hope this greedy scum bag doesnt het her way but at the same time I do i know this would be DH's breaking point and would open a gap to moving back to my home town. cant wait to put this mess behind us.

Here we go court tomorrow and stress

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So we have court tomorrow regarding dh's motion to have children living with us, well investigator didnt feel there was anything wrong and that kids should remain with bm and just suggested Dh get one extra night a month and split summer 50/50. If only the kids would have said what really has happened when she has had her substance issues thing in my opinion would be different oh well not my kids. So now her Attorney is asking for Dh to pay her fees.

The Report is out

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So the child investigator report is out and guess what she ate up Bm's poor me act. All this time and money for what well i guess piece of mind thats all i can think to justify it now she cant control Dh time as she did before. Well all I can say is Poor kids and i hope if anything this was an eye opener for Bm, dont think it is if anything it is ego boost the be a bigger B*&^h. Im sure judge will just agree with report as she did with the mid report. Well time to move on and plan my next vacation Skid free.

Dont Tell your Dad I'm Having another mans Baby!

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So this is exactly what BM told SD10 not to tell me or Dh. Dont tell your Dad Im having a baby he will get mad I'm having another mans baby :? mind you they have been split since SD was 6 months and Dh is married and has another baby from another woman. She gives herself more importance then she has in Dh life. All i could do when SD told me was hold in my laughter and think poor kid coming into the mess of a life this woman has and coming into a family that is not happy of its existence.

how many of you are required to provide a copy of your drivers license and proof of insurance to your Dh Ex

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how many of you are required to provide a copy of your drivers license and proof of insurance to your Dh Ex to drive skids around? this judge has now ordered for me to do so I refuse that is information you dont freely hand out.
My Dh license is expired and he is working on getting that resolved am i wrong to not want to provide that information to the BM.

Child investigator update

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So we had child investigator in our home two weekends ago seemed to go well she did mention kids have been through a lot of change caused by Bm and listed all the changes and mentioned changes we caused as well getting married and having a child which doesn't compare to changed Bm has caused she did mention that Bm's relationship is fairly new with new BF and who knows how that will end since its fairly new and they are not in a committed relationship and how she doesn't believe another change would be that drastic for them and that she would make sure she put that in report and recommends

Update BM's parents got her a lawyer

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Bm's parents got her a lawyer so now the order granting my DH primary custody was taken back and are now currently going by previous arrangements :/ we will now go through court hearing for review at the end of January judge ordered a child investigator and thats were we are at Sd continues to say she wants to live with us and even told brother and bm this BM just told her she didnt want to talk about it and hung up the phone. SS now changed his mind about living with us because he has to do as we say and he cant take it.

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