I believe my SS is choosing to go AWOL from us & his little family (GF & D3). Is it wrong to choose to maintain contact with GF & GD? We have only had contact with them (SS's choice) since 10/2018. 

When SS chose to leave our home 4/2014, we told him that he could come home at any time he was ready. They have lived less than 5 miles from us since he left. Contact resumed when we saw them at Costco & I let BS choose whether or not to make contact with his brother. BS chose contact & we have seen SS & GF almost weekly since then.