ughhhh... Bm just called Dh asking if we could "babysit" ss tonight. Dh asked her why and if it's an emergency and she says it's not a emergency but that she needs a babysitter because she's going to a fallout boy concert tonight... yes, this is the same chick calling asking for help with school supplies because she's struggling financially. I guess fallout boy tickets take precedence over supplies for your kid? wtf.
What bothers me is dh told her no to call him for non emergencies but that if she wanted she could call his sister and ask her to babysit--- wtf!! why why why would he tell her no but then give her ideas of who she can throw her responsibilities on??... this situation makes me sick already. I had to then explain to Dh how he's enabling her behavior. that's like telling a crack head, no I don't have crack for you, but I know where you can get some! I'm sick of having to explain to him why he shouldn't have done that. He said he only told her that because it would force Bm to bring Ss to our side of town and thus he would avoid having to drive out to pick up his son. I then let him know that that could/would all be avoided if you took care of his responsibilites and got her into court and set up a meeting point location. whatever. It's like dealing with children.