SD talking about moving in. Lord help me.
SD comes over this afternoon for scheduled Wed to thurs visit. She's in alternative school so I take her to school Thursdays when her dad is out of town working (2 week on 2 week off shift). BM is a total ****tard, to be clear and concise. . .Lol. Anyhow, SD is annoying as hell, entitle, selfish, and bitchy as heck; however, she'sbeen raised that way. ANYHOW, SD says she's thinking about moving in here bc she's tired of fighting with her mom. YA, I get that, but wtf? Her dad would jump at the chance, but its easy for him, he LOVES her and also would not be here to deal with her rebellious and moody bitchy nature. I have told him I will not even consider her moving here if he continues to work out of town. The funny thing is, we would not be able to afford my being a SAHM to our 2 and 3 year old girls if he DIDN'T work out of town. . . . .so I'm hoping my threat/logic works to keep her out of our home permanently. If I could have raised this child from the age when I met her(eight years old), she could/would have been a different 16 year old I guarantee it. HOWEVER, now her mom has royally screwed up this child, can't handle the monster she's created, and will probably be more than happy to pawn her mess of on me/us. Feck feck feck. Oh, to boot, I get to buy this kid stuff, have her visit with or without DH present, and get to chauffeur her endlessy to appointments or school or what have you-BUT it seems I get no say in anything pertaining to darling SD, even if it negatively affects my life. I already have a stress ulcer I swear. SORRY this was so long, but it woyld have been pages long if I started in about BM. Ugh!!!!!!!