Case is closed
I'm sorry to those who wanted me to stay away from everything. My daughter has been with a friend all day. I wanted to somehow be there with my husband as a team to show them a family that can make it through problems while at the same time keep my daughter safe.
The caseworker came with the sheriff. DH and SD were planning to lie and I stressed to tell the truth because its the only way to make it through and have a chance of coming out on the other side ok. So they did and the caseworker and the sheriff said they just don't want anymore reports like this and to just walk away from each other. They asked about me and DH's relationship and he told them we occasionally we argue but it has never gotten physical which is true. SD asked if there will be any more meetings and they said no as long as they dont get any more phone calls.
My mom had a good relationship with my dad and she told me there were incredible hard times one of them could have just walked away from each and never gone back but they didnt. As long as I feel I can keep my kids safe and stiil be there for my husband I will. I'm not saying everything will go back to the way it was. I think my husband had an eye opening moment today but that is not known for sure yet. He learns slow sometimes but he learns.
Flame me all you want. I'm just trying to be honest and I'm operating on low brain energy at the moment. I haven't relaxed yet and when the opportunity comes and I'm alone I will probably lose it for a bit.
Like I said I'm sorry if I disappointed anyone and just the same I want to thank you for being there for me so I didn't have to go through it alone.