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Submitted by MommyMayI on Thu, 09/03/2015 - 2:46pm

BM and DH's therapist wants me and BM to have a sit down together. Basically, she blames all of her emotional problems on me, and he thinks that if we meet it might get better. BM and I never talk, NEVER. I don't want to talk to her, but I have no problem sitting down with the three of us. I already know what would happen. BM would rage and throw tantrums, and I would sit there and smile, because I find it very uplifting that I ruin this woman's life just because I am breathing. Anyways, DH told the therapist that he knew I would meet with them but BM would probably say no.

I need to learn my role

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Submitted by MommyMayI on Wed, 09/02/2015 - 8:43am

BM and DH have been doing extensive court ordered therapy working on their "buisness" relationship so they can co-parent better. This has been going on for months and we are getting down to the end.
A little backstory: months ago bm and DH made an AGREEMENT when dh signed ss up for soccer that for a COUPLE of weeks me and my bio girls would not attend practices during bm's custody times even though dh is coaching the practices. Bm claimed she needed a little time to get used to me being around. Ok fine.

I need to learn my role

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Submitted by MommyMayI on Wed, 09/02/2015 - 8:43am

BM and DH have been doing extensive court ordered therapy working on their "buisness" relationship so they can co-parent better. This has been going on for months and we are getting down to the end.
A little backstory: months ago bm and DH made an AGREEMENT when dh signed ss up for soccer that for a COUPLE of weeks me and my bio girls would not attend practices during bm's custody times even though dh is coaching the practices. Bm claimed she needed a little time to get used to me being around. Ok fine.

I need to learn my role

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Submitted by MommyMayI on Wed, 09/02/2015 - 8:43am

BM and DH have been doing extensive court ordered therapy working on their "buisness" relationship so they can co-parent better. This has been going on for months and we are getting down to the end.
A little backstory: months ago bm and DH made an AGREEMENT when dh signed ss up for soccer that for a COUPLE of weeks me and my bio girls would not attend practices during bm's custody times even though dh is coaching the practices. Bm claimed she needed a little time to get used to me being around. Ok fine.

Quick question

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Submitted by MommyMayI on Wed, 07/29/2015 - 6:21pm

Next year is bm's week for spring break. She is supposed to pick him up on Monday morning and keep ss through her weekend. Well, last night during their parent meeting bm asked dh if she could have ss9 on the Sunday before so she could go to Hawaii. Dh said she would think about it. We looked on the calendar and that is our daughter's third bday and we have plans for a camping trip that same weekend. Dh told her that she could pick up ss at 830 pm rather than on the next morning.

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