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Minor issue ... but it bugs me!

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First, let me say that DH and I have a fantastic marriage. We agree on almost everything and communicate really well. So what's my problem?

Sometimes I don't know if I should say something to him about things that might be sorta petty. Since he's so terrific in so many ways, shouldn't I just shut up and put up with minor nonsense? But then sometimes the minor nonsense starts to eat at me -- and then I feel like I should say something, but then I don't know.

Infuriated for DH (CS related)!!!

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Is anyone familiar with CS in NJ? I'm trying to figure out if DH can be made to pay for BM's vacation (which was LAST summer) with their kids. At the request of their mediator, BM put together a list of her expenses. What she was supposed to do was put together a list of expenses she considers to be extraordinary, so that she and DH can negotiate the types of expenses he agrees should not be included in support.

Mediation is a wonderful thing!

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So I have posted bits and pieces of my story in other posts. Married DH in 9/06. I have BS15, BS10, BS7, SD16 and SD13. DH and I BOTH pay CS because our exes make less than we do. I share 50/50 custody with ex (although the way it usually works out my boys spend more time with me - which is great). DH has every other weekend with SDs plus every Tue/Wed night visitation.