Hi all, I just posted another blog under the same name but I think it disappeared. I recently posted about my BF who cheated on me with BM for first six months of our relationship and lied about her for long afterwards. We finally split last week and I am struggling to pick up the pieces and move on. The final straw for me was BF's insistence that he should be allowed to spend time alone with just BM and ss3 if "that's what ss3 wants" which BF claims he asks for every day. I am not comfortable with this for obvious reasons and also I think it's confusing for ss3.