So, I had no idea where to post this... So, I posted it in general discussion. I need help... advice, counseling, a few double shots of tequilla, and a long nap. I'm new on here, obviously. lol. I'm 24 years old and in a serious relationship with a man who is about to become a first-time father. My BF's ex found out she was pregnant right before he and I started dating, and in less than a month I'm going to be a step-parent of sorts. (No, my boyfriend and I are not married, but we live together and have talked about getting married in the future.