So I started this step parenting thing three years ago. I have two sons 8 1/2 and 3 1/2of my own so the parenting thing isn't a new thing. I know it could've been worse. Then again, SS is only three years old and we have many more years to live. BM= crazy/lazy. I don't know if the scales tip more to one side than the other and feel as though lazy might be worse than crazy.