My wife and I have been married for 9 years and when we married she already had 3 kids and I didn't have any at the time and now I'm having trouble with my step son and she blames every one else every time he does crazy shit like being very disobedient,curseing, telling you what he ain't gone do,taking back etc.The list goes on and all she can say is this is my fault cause I'm always getting on him like the doesn't do a damn thing to get himself in trouble.She so call proclaims that she will talk to him but shes the type that won't talk while I'm present but do it in private like I don't n