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Can’t stand my stepdaughter

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Submitted by Lissy70 on Sun, 09/26/2021 - 6:12pm

My SD is young adult and hardly sees my husband because she doesn't like being with me or my kids. When she does see him I am always excluded, even though I don't want to be around her it hurts my feelings to be excluded. I even find myself getting jealous when my husband goes out with her. We had very rough teen years she hated that her father got remarried and "his new family". She should have been put in therapy but her parents chose to spoil her not discipline her. Any suggestions to not let this bother me so much? 

How to disengage?

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Submitted by Lissy70 on Thu, 07/08/2021 - 9:18pm

How do I disengage? My SS is 26 living with us, not working, ignoring everyone (including his dad). Since he's already ignoring me, pulling back is what he wants. 
I stopped going to many of my husbands family events because his sister and my SD are so annoying, plus they invite the BM to many of these events. My husband is getting so annoyed I don't go, so he stopped going to my family events! Such a mess here. 

I lost the battle

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Submitted by Lissy70 on Fri, 06/18/2021 - 6:16pm

I lost the battle with my DH , told my 26 year old unemployed loaf SS to go stay at his mothers house when his dad is traveling for work and my DH said we can't uproot him because he has "health issues" I know these issues are made up so he doesn't have to work. Sleeps all day, up all night and talks to no one in the house. He has some mental issue like aspergers, depression or anger issues. My husband called his ex and of course, I am to blame! I'm trying to kick her son out and I'm a b***h.

Creepy stepson

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Submitted by Lissy70 on Tue, 06/08/2021 - 1:21pm

My 26 year old SS lives with us, no job and trying to get into PHd programs for philosophy but been rejected 3 times. He talks to no one, stays in his room all the time, sleeps all day and stays awake all night to avoid contact with anyone. I know he has mental issues whether it be depression or anxiety or aspergers. I've found therapist but my husband won't take him. Yes, my husband enables him and the mother is a selfish drunk. My husband is going to start travel for work and I don't want to be a alone with the kid, I don't want to be responsible and he makes me so uncomfortable.