What should my SO do about his oldest (SD14) and the fact that she has told him that she no longer will be coming to EOW visitation? She is full of drama and it's always something. She has been raised to be spoiled, self centerd, and she thinks that the world revolves around her. I blame the BM, SO, and his mother for this. He is at the end of this rope and is just ready to say if she doesn't come he is not paying CS anymore for her. I told him that ending CS was not that easy and he would have to give up all rights and still go to court for that.