I had a great relationship with my 2 step kids up until recently. Their mother is insanely jealous of the fact that my husband has moved on and is happy. She constantly bad mouths me now to the children and sends nasty emails about me to my husband. Now we have issues with his oldest son an 8 year old who is now convinced that i am evil incarnate and if he tries hard enough he can cause me to leave so that it is just him and his dad again.