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I should have listened..

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Mon, 03/04/2024 - 1:02am

The people on this blog who have replied with advice to my rants and posts were right. People said I would be dealing with my SS for a long time. I didnt want to believe it but here I am. 9 years later dealing with the same thing.  I went through so much s@#$ and trauma dealing with my SS addictions. My partner and her family continue to enable his substance abuse. There were hopeful times when he had gone to rehab and stayed sober for a year, but of course he fell right back into his habits.

Ss Relapse

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Wed, 03/23/2022 - 3:21pm

So my 20yr old SS Relapsed yesterday, he was sober for over 60 days. He left his group home and now hes embarassed to go back. I pray to god he goes back. I understand relapse is common for people who are in treatment. My partner asks me if its ok for him to stay the night. Before she actually asks me she says "i think you should stay at your moms place"  this was even before we discussed that he would be staying. I get that she needs to try and convince him one on one to go back, but its also my home.

Thank you!

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Fri, 12/24/2021 - 12:33am

Thank you to all who have replied to any of my blogs. I value everyones words and advice. When I feel like I'm alone in this I remember this space and community. We share a lot of hardships and frustrations and our stories. I am truely grateful. Happy Holidays and a Happy New year. May 2022 be a healthier one for us all. Stay safe.

Long vent...letting out before the end of the year.

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Thu, 12/23/2021 - 10:49am

I live with my partner. She has a mentally ill son with drug and alcohol addictions. He no longer lives with us because he was too much to deal with. Her and her family still deal with him even though he is an adult. Grandma and Grandpa still enable their grandson. It used to pisss me off but at the end of the day this isnt my s@#$. How they deal with him is their own doing. And he is the way he is because of them. ENTITLED. They have housed him in hotels even pay for his current apartment where he will be getting eveicted at the end of January cause he caused too much problems.

Moving out

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Tue, 08/11/2020 - 2:29pm

My partner and I have come to an agreement that me moving out would be best. We arent arent breaking up, we just need our own space. We have lived together for almost 5yrs and yeah...im sad about it. Im moving out because of her son. I've done my best to support them both emotionally and financially but my patience has run out. My partner and I have fought continuosly about him and his behaviour. We made rules and made agreements together but nothing has followed through.

Done..

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Mon, 08/10/2020 - 11:55am

Its been awhile since i posted anything. I guess because for a few months my ss was not living with us. He had been kicked out of our place for being verbally abusive and an out of control alcoholic. My ss is 19 now and has now moved back in with us. For about 6 months he lived with his grandfathers side of the family untill he pushed them to their limits. He was previously kicked out of his grandmothers house for pulling the same thing.

Annoyed

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Mon, 12/16/2019 - 10:02pm

I am really aonnoyed with my SS. Its so bad that I cant even be in the same room with him. And just hearing him talk irks me. When he talks he just rambles about stupid s#$&. When he got super drunk the other night he was being verbally abusive to me and his mother. People say oh he's just drunk and he doesnt know what he's saying. But I dont believe that one bit. Truth comes out with alcohol. So what ever disgusting remarks he has ever made to me must be what is on his mind and how he feels about me. The last time this happened I didnt talk to him for almost 2 months.

Alcoholic SS has done it again

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Sat, 12/14/2019 - 8:23am

Just  been upventing. I've for about 24hrs now. Waiting for my SO who is in the hopital waiting for her xray results. My SS had another night of drinking and things got nasty again. Resulted in a huge argument. Recently made ammends with him from the last nasty incident and we are at it again. I mean of course things arent gonna change. The enablers will continue to "keep him safe" but really they are feeding into his addictions. He continues to be verbally abusive and blabs about non sense. I was sick a few days ago and he just wouldnt shut up.

Living with an alcoholic stepson

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Submitted by JustMe604 on Mon, 12/09/2019 - 6:28pm

I live with my partner and her 18yr old alcoholic son. Over the past 4yrs we have been dealing with his addictions. On top of that he has mental health issues. We have been in and out of hospitals and have made many calls to the police about his behaviour. When he drinks there is no stopping him. He is verbally abusive and can get physical. He has been living off and on with us and his grandmas house. My partner and I have butted heads about his behaviour and about living here. He does jack all nothing, doesnt work or attend school.