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Taste of victory

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Submitted by Just human on Tue, 02/12/2013 - 10:33pm

I know it's coming, the BM knows I make more than DH and asks for pricey gifts for the skids. I can see it happening in a year when SD14 starts driving and wants a car. Already the SD14 tells DH he's "rich". No, we just don't spend into oblivion. After two years of using every dime outside of bills towards divorce debt DH will finally be done. BM tried to get money out of DH by harassing him about braces for the SD14. I told him to pay the dentist directly for his half because we knew she wanted the money for Christmas. Did she get the SD braces she said were sooooo important? Hell no!

Avoiding potential for abuse allegations

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Submitted by Just human on Wed, 02/06/2013 - 1:38am

My dh and I do not have kids of our own. He is in a job where he can only see his kids a couple times a year. I have a very respectable occupation. BM is crazy. Period. Dot. I have had to change my phone number due to her harassing me. We have been stalked by her and do not give out our address. When my DH is in the country we have to turn my caller ID off on my cell so the BM can't get my number. BM tries to guilt trip DH into giving her more money for the kids when she is mismanaging child support.

New SM

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Submitted by Just human on Sun, 02/03/2013 - 4:41pm

My Sd was left to live in another state with her grand mother while BM lived in another state with her new husband. My husband is overseas in the military. He did not consent to his daughter living with the grandmother but that is besides the point. My contact with the 13 yo SD was good (she has stayed with us twice and we had great times) until the BM moved back to where my SD was living. Since then she does not communicate with me and says horrible things about me to her father. It's very high school with her mother in the background egging it on.