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I feel for Alec Baldwin but

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I totally disagree with the kind of language he used to communicate to his daughter. We all say awful and regrettable things when we are mad and he has sincerely apologised for the tirade towards his daughter. I also feel very sorry towards his daughter Ireland and that's why I'm getting so mad because innocent kids like her are the ones bearing the brunt of heated custody disputes. But does anyone stop to think what led Alec to this outburst?

Hi y'all, been gone but back with new chapter

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Hi everyone, today I have been trying to update myself on whats going on with everyone. Since my last blog, I felt like I was going to hit rock bottom with all the craziness that was going on and I decided to take time off and go to my parents' house and get myself together. I left my older daughter with my sister and took the younger one with me. BF was not amused but I had to do what I needed to do for my sanity. I came back yesterday and I am so refreshed. BF and I didn't talk much while I was at my parents' so he was updating me of his divorce situation yesterday.

This is so messed up, need advice

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I just received a call a couple of hours ago from my ex whom I haven't heard from or seen since last August. He completely abandoned his BD and stopped paying child support one year ago. My BD (6 yrs) has adjusted to his absence though once in a while she asks about him. BD has not bonded with my BF (wrote a blog about the issue), so she really has no father figure. Back to the call contents - he first begs me to listen to him, says he apologizes for not being a responsible father and for all the bad things he did to me.

Sorry everyone

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Hi, please bear with me because I just deleted some of my postings coz I suspected my BF knew about this sight from my web address history. I don't him reading the posts that would be obvious that I was talking about our situation, especially his relationship with his SD. I know he would feel betrayed that I shared my feelings with strangers and not him. But what am I suppose to do when he builds a wall around him and we can't discuss any issues. I am so much open to people on this website than my own BF. That's messed up.

Help - BF is literary falling apart

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I do not know what else to do to keep my BF afloat. He has been depressed over all the divorce issues and mainly due to the fact that he has not been able to see his kids thanx to psycho BM. All he wants to do is sleep. A few times I have been able to distract his mind but just for a short moment. He is very anxious as we are awaiting the divorce trial judgement after a very unfair trial. He has been adhering to the initial temporary divorce orders for almost 4 yrs and he is at breaking point especially financially.

Obtain legal help no matter what

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Thanks everyone for your support and advise. A man contemplating a divorce with a psycho woman should be strongly advised to get a lawyer no matter how dire your financial situation. My BF had experienced court bias right from the start but with his recent court experience where injustice was so blatant, that's when it really hit home. Women who have a BF going through such BS should really support their men coz its whatever affects our men affects everyone. Such ordeals are almost impossible to deal with without other people's support.

never ending nightmare

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Thanx to this website's creator that allows people to share their experiences and advise. I met my current BF almost 7 yrs ago when he was separated from his wife though not legally. He'd been married for 13 yrs and 9 of those years had been hell. He is the kind who believes in staying in a bad marriage for the kids sake. He has 2 kids. After a while he said he wanted to work things out again with his wife. He went back to his wife, things were o.k. at the beginning then the wife went back to her old ways of seeing other men which was the initial reason they had separated.