I am looking for some advice if I am in the wrong with how I feel or if my feelings are warranted. I am about to be re-married, and we are blending our family with 5 kids. Some background... within the last 8 months I have had serious female medical issues (which were not life threatning), but I am an extremely private person so not too many people know. My soon to be husband tells his son (who is 12) every personal detail of my medical history, and then my stepson goes and tells his mom.