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Wow sh*t just hit the fan.

Jcksjj's picture

So SIL was messaging SD on her tablet and I saw that she told SD that it was unfair that she had to do chores when she's not here very much. And she was pumping her for information about what we're doing today. I messaged SIL back and told her that it is not up to her what SD does at our house. She then messaged back that I was petty and vindictive and taking things out on sweet SD. Then I blocked her and DH called SIL and flipped out on her and then on his parents. Supposedly his parents don't know a lot of what SIL has been pulling, but SIL tried to blame her parents so who knows. 

Anyway, SIL and BM are sitting outside our house to pick up SD now and we're waiting for police to show up to facilitate the exchange so they can see that she's safe and not being mistreated.

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Exjuliemccoy's picture

Yikes!!! Your SIL is completely toxic (and I hate that word, it's so overused). Does she have emotional problems, or what?

She's a bad, subversive influence on your SD. I'm glad your DH blew up on her. And he needs to be sure to let his mom and dad know she threw them under the bus. It won't fix these trashy, dysfunctional people but hopefully they'll be too busy fighting each other to bother you for a bit.

Jcksjj's picture

He did tell them that. Who knows what will come of it, idk if I believe them that they were as in the dark as they say, although they didn't know that BM told us that SD couldn't come here anymore and thought that DH had chosen for her to stay at BMs.

All this over SD having to put some clothes away l, omg.

Caroline2b1211's picture

Sounds like you are talking about my SIL. 
Always trying to find out if SS is mistreated in our home. Guess what ? It ended up with SIL encouraging SS to lie about his father ! 
 

So glad you call her. So glad your DH too. But you have to be really clear to DH : this is NOT acceptable. Either he manages to calm his sister, nor you cut ties with this toxic lady

Jcksjj's picture

I have a feeling that's where this is going. To false accusations. DH said he's permanently done with his sister and never wants anything to do with her again.