So Maggot is once again trying to move skids farther away from DH.
She has successfully completely alienated them against him (and me) over the past 9 years.
DH is planning on letting her move. He just has to go to court to protect himself (prevent Maggot from ever moving out of state or from ever being able to somehow get more money from him).
So we asked skids this weekend if they even want to move (DH wanted to make sure this isn't being forced on them and that they really are so alienated that they don't want to be around their dad much anymore - because let's face it: Maggot making a 1.5 hour drive two times a weekend, twice a month is laughable).
Well I had one of my normal, regular, friendly convos with YSS11, yakking about this and that, and when I finally got to asking him if he wants to move, he clammed up.
I told him that I have known him since he was 2 and I can tell what is going on his life and that his mother told him not to talk about moving with me, yes?
He nodded and said, "Yes she told me not to talk about it, so I can't talk about it."
I told him that makes me sad, because his dad can't bond with him if he is regularly being told not to talk about his life with his own dad. Then we talked about his plans for the day (laying one bed gaming on his phone) and that was that.
So Maggot starts texting DH and referring to me as "some other person in your house." ROFL. And accuses me of telling YSS11 that he is a liar (which of course I never did... because he isn't a liar - he is just doing what his mother told him to do to avoid her wrath).
Like, I honestly thought Maggot was not jealous of me anymore. It's been 9.75 years since DH left her. 9 years since DH and I first made contact, and DH and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary in May. Plus Maggot just received enough of an inheritance from her father's suicide that she now feels capable of buying a home,
She feels powerful with her currently "hood-rich" lifestyle, and on top of all that, DH is GOING to allow her to move!
She has gotten everything she wants: free money, moving far away, permanently turning her children against their own father.
DH told me tonight that he thinks he would be fine if skids disappeared from his life forever because they are so fully alienated that they are actively trying to destroy their own dad alongside Maggot now. He threw his hands in the air and said "Maggot wins! I give up! I know most people would say I'm SUPPOSED to fight for my kids, but for WHAT? They both hate me because of all the lies and brainwashing by Maggot. I just want all of the drama to go away forever."
So Maggot has won her game.
This is why I was actually amazed that she is obviously still so jealous of me that she can't refer to me by name, recognize me as her son's stepmom, or even acknowledge that I am DH's wife.
Wouldn't someone who is finally getting what she wants just be happy? Why the continuous jealousy?