My adult SD moved in 5 years ago and my DH is an enabler. Usually I am blamed and treated like trash. DH says we must deal with it. That is not working. She has made no effort to leave and has a part time job for 2 months now. She disrespects me and DH does not deal with it. I am having health issues as a result of the stress. My solution is to leave. I had to leave my job because of my health and don't have money to start again.  Besides leaving what can I do to change the situation. DH says if  SD moves out he will blame me if anything happens to her.