ok I NEED HELP. My husbands little girl lives with us. He has had physical custody of her since she was 1 1/2years, she is now 4 1/2. My husband and I have been together since his girl was 2 1/2 so I have been a BIG part in her life for most of her life. Her mother sees her every other weekend, holidays, and summer. My question is what are MY rights of helping bring her up. Is it my place to answer qustions like why she doesnt see her mommy that much. ( oh I am with her most of the day so we are very close) Whose belly was I in.